We’re going to create a Connection Revolution community collage! I’m kind of ridiculously excited about this, I gotta say.

Watch me be adorable and dorky!

If you can’t see the video above, click here to watch it!

Oh, and also, Pace created a handy-dandy form for you to send us your collage words and pictures. It’s pretty! And you can participate by filling out the form even if you don’t watch my adorable and dorky video.

I suggest you give us your input now, because if you wait, you might forget, and I really want you to be a part of it. Really really.

Please join us in creating our first-ever communal art work! It’s going to be magnificent. I get shivers just imaging it!

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Has your self-care gone stale?

by Kyeli on January 26, 2012

Nothing seems to have changed in your life, but you’re not getting the nourishment you need, and you feel drained and blocked.

Maybe your self-care has gone stale.

I made a video about how this happened to me and what I’m doing to make it better. And I bring it home at the end and issue a challenge for you!

If you don’t see it above, click here to watch it – and let me know what you think!

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Today’s the last day to register for The Way of the Peaceful Entrepreneur!

And as a thank-you for your attention during this communication-heavy registration period, we’ve got one last free resource for you.

The Kelly and Pace jam session

In this video, Kelly and I jam about peaceful entrepreneurship, just because it’s fun. And what do you know, useful and helpful topics come up! Topics like:

  • What happens when you tell your customers that they are an afterthought
  • Doing what you love — when does it make you money, and when doesn’t it?
  • What we thought “marketing” meant three years ago, and what we think it means now
  • How courageous authenticity is a business advantage
  • Why The Way is paved with tools, not rules
  • The catch: Why The Way of the Peaceful Entrepreneur is not a free lunch
  • What Kelly learned from me

You can watch it here.

That said, today’s the day for the big question:

Are you joining us for The Way of the Peaceful Entrepreneur?

Yes, I’m signing up!

Superb! If you haven’t registered already, you’ll want to do that today, because today is the last day to sign up.

If money is tight, remember that there’s a payment plan available, and if your “yes” is a yes with reservations, don’t forget that we’ve got that no-questions-asked 100% money-back guarantee that you get to redeem after you take the course.

No, I’m not signing up!

Cool! I’ve got some tater tots for you later. And I hope you’ve found some of our free resources helpful. Here’s a recap, in case you missed any of ‘em:

  1. Peaceful Motivation Part 1 and Part 2 (how to motivate yourself with love, not fear)
  2. Conquering Self-Doubt (and why starting a business is like moving to New York City)
  3. The Flame and the River (the danger of the “crush it” approach, and an alternative)
  4. The Two Types of Internet Businesses (and which one is right for you when starting out)
  5. A conversation with Jen Louden about comfort, shadow comfort, and peace (to get a sense of what kind of “peaceful” we’re talking about)
  6. The “Peaceful Cage Match” between Pace and Johnny (now includes a link to the recording if you missed the live debate)
  7. The 22 Wildly Mutable Laws of the New Marketing (to get a sense of what kind of business we’re talking about)
  8. The Kelly and Pace jam session (to understand why being a peaceful entrepreneur is a business advantage)

Maybe! I don’t know whether to sign up!

Would you like to know how I make decisions?

Hmm. I can’t actually wait to hear your answer, so I’m going to tell you, and if you don’t want to know, then stop reading here.

I feed my head, then ask my heart.

By “feed my head”, I mean I look at all the available information. Sometimes I’ll do some research. Sometimes I’ll ask others for more information. Sometimes I’ll make a pros-and-cons list. Sometimes I’ll talk it over with someone I respect — although to be honest, those conversations are more about me thinking out loud than about having a two-way conversation.

By “ask my heart”, I mean I sit quietly, close my eyes, and turn my attention to my heart. I take several deep breaths and become aware of my connection to Spirit. I imagine placing the thing I’m deciding about in the palm of my right hand. I gently close my hand over it, and slowly place my closed right hand over my heart. Then I ask, “Is this right for me?” and wait to sense a reply.

Sometimes I sense a warming, or expanding glowing feeling in my chest. That’s a yes. Sometimes I sense a contracting, cooling feeling. That’s a no. Sometimes I physically lean slightly forward or backward. Forward is a yes, because it’s toward the thing represented by my hand. Backward is a no, because it’s away from the object of my decision.

Sometimes I don’t get anything clear at all, in which case I’ll either meditate on it for longer, or go get more data or think about it some more, then ask my heart again.

This is how I make all my important decisions. Business decisions, relationship issues, which car to buy, household budgets, what city to live in. I feed my head, then I ask my heart.

The danger of it is that I’m asking “Is this right for me?”, not “Is this easy for me?” or “Is this comfortable for me?”. My heart doesn’t always lead me where I want to go, but it always leads me where I need to go.

The beauty of it is that it brings me peace, because I no longer second-guess myself. I used to second-guess myself every day, but now I have faith in my heart.

So if you’re not sure how to decide (about The Way of the Peaceful Entrepreneur or about anything), try this process. Feed your head, then ask your heart. Even if you’re not sure how to do every single step of the process, just give it a shot and see what happens.

I trust your heart. Do you?

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Behind the scenes of The Way of the Peaceful Entrepreneur

January 16, 2012

Q: Why did you decide to teach this course? Two years ago, I ranted to Kelly Kingman about how almost all the people teaching business online had a “crush it” attitude. She suggested we teach a class about peaceful entrepreneurship as an antidote to the “crush it” mentality; to represent some feminine energy as a [...]

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The 22 Wildly Mutable Laws of the New Marketing

January 10, 2012

Click the image to download the eBook In 1993, some guys by the name of Ries and Trout released a now-classic book called The 22 Immutable Laws of Marketing. It’s brilliant, but its 1993 publication date really shows, and its target audience is corporate marketers, not small business content marketers like us. Here, let me show [...]

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Live debate today! Pace takes on Johnny B. Truant in a “Peaceful Cage Match!”

January 9, 2012

Our very own Pace Smith takes on the notorious Johnny B. Truant in a PEACEFUL CAGE MATCH: a live debate, free for all to attend! Time: Monday, January 9th at 5:00pm Eastern Listening method: Phone + Web Simulcast To attend, visit this page during the match, or call (303) 390-0043 and enter the PIN 734346#. [...]

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A conversation with Jen Louden about comfort, shadow comfort, and peace

January 7, 2012

Jennifer Louden has taught a lot about comfort, savoring, and serving. So I (Pace) wanted to talk to her about The Way of the Peaceful Entrepreneur. In this conversation, Jen and I talk about: All the people saying “crush it” and “kick your own ass”, and what effect that has on would-be entrepreneurs. Being an [...]

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The Way of the Peaceful Entrepreneur is open for registration!

January 5, 2012

The Way of the Peaceful Entrepreneur is open for registration! Click here to find out all the details about the course! …or stick around for a story. A Life Deferred Four years ago, I read The Four Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss. That book was my first glimpse into the world of online business. [...]

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Kyeli’s New Studio

January 3, 2012

Here is a dorky happy little video tour of my new studio, just for you. It’s less than five minutes long and is really quite amusing and adorable, if I do say so myself. (And I do.) And! I’m in my super awesome 70′s shirt. It really doesn’t get any better. (If you can’t see [...]

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2011

December 31, 2011

In keeping with my annual tradition (2010, 2009, 2008), I’m reflecting on everything that’s happened this year. I usually do this on Samhain Eve, but I didn’t make time for it this October, which is why you get two extra months here. In 2011, I ramped up my DDR: I AAAed 11 more catas (compared [...]

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The Flame and the River

December 30, 2011

When you think “motivation,” what kind of images come to your mind? Do you think of fire? Passion, desire? A burning hot drive to accomplish, to strive? Or do you think of water, of flow? The rain that can coax plants to grow? The river that turns the mill wheel, With its own soft and [...]

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