Comments on: Both or neither?

By: Aimee

Aimee — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 20:28:00 +0000

You summed it up perfectly, definitely something to ponder on.

By: Claudia

Claudia — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 17:38:28 +0000

I love this post! I’ve been so stressed and busy the last couple months that I’m using this week to reset myself.

I want A, B and C right now, but I’ll honor myself instead and choose D: being calm, do as little as I can and enjoy the world around me. Maybe next week I’ll go back to my hectic life. Or not.
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By: Tracy

Tracy — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 00:48:43 +0000

Nice post! I get caught in the A vs. B spiral a lot more often than I want to admit. C is so often the more difficult choice even when I know it’s a better long-term strategy.

By the way, if you’ve managed to figure out a C response to “sleep late vs. be productive in the morning,” I would love to hear it!
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By: Nathalie Lussier

Nathalie Lussier — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 22:34:08 +0000

You are such a smartie Kyeli. :) You've totally nailed it on the head. I definitely agree that doing both every now and then doesn't actually get you what you want, but that you need to look deeper. Genius. .-= Nathalie Lussier´s last blog ..Sprouting Guide: How to Sprout Seeds and Bean Sprouts =-.

By: Lydia, Clueless Crafter

Lydia, Clueless Crafter — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 22:33:39 +0000

Kyeli, Have you bothered to think that maybe your “stuck”iness is coming from feelings or thoughts about your upcoming marriage ( I think I remember you saying you were to honeymoon in Ireland?)?? Your quick answer may be “nothing to do with that!” but this big life moment has a way of hampering our brains and futzing with our spirits.

I was recently wed and it was a HUGE change. I wanted the good life, total adulthood and I wanted to be a kid, have everything I wanted at all times just handed to me. It was a crossroads for sure!
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By: Mollena

Mollena — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 22:33:34 +0000

Fantastical.

Sifting the wants from needs then peeling off the husks of desires to get to the germ of what is required for nourishment of the soul is the best way to feed the spirit.

Way to go! Hella resonant for me.
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By: Leah/DefytheBox

Leah/DefytheBox — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 20:30:15 +0000

I think a bit of consciousness is always in order....but especially if you are feeling conflicted. Thanks for the reminder to get to the root of the problem in order to give yourself what you really need. .-= Leah/DefytheBox´s last blog ..Thoughts on Hedonism =-.

By: Laurie Stewart

Laurie Stewart — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 17:19:50 +0000

mmmmm…..a good friend once told me, you can do anything…..but you can’t do everything~great post……I am so here!
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